I was raped. The courts handed over my daughter to my rapist. He is now psychologically torturing her to get back at me for leaving him and the courts are okay with it.
My daughter knew she was conceived in rape. (She had read a paper I had done for a criminal justice class about some of the stuff her father did to me without my prior knowledge. I tried to keep her from ever knowing how she was conceived.) CPS demanded that I lie to my daughter and tell her that she was conceived in love. The supervisor was screaming how "it doesn't matter if he is in prison for mass murder, you never disparage a child's father." But at the same time they were telling my daughter that I didn't love her and was constantly badmouthing me to her, telling her lies about me.
I'm not allowed to see my daughter because I 'might' badmouth her father. They kept saying how I badmouthed her father and that is why she hated him. She had her own reasons for hating him. But he does nothing but badmouth me to her and that is perfectly fine because her mother is just a piece of trash in their eyes. I hadn't even badmouthed him to her. I told her the truth about how violent he is to protect her from being hurt like I had been. I rarely even talked about him around her. I sometimes answered questions she had about him, but I didn't just start talking about him. She always brought the subject up, not me. I didn't want to talk about him at all.
The courts hold it against rape victims when they don't want to co-parent with their rapists. They are accused of parental alienation if they're not buddies with the fathers. The courts view it in the child's best interest to be with the rapist since the mother won't give in to his demands. But then the rapist does what he can to turn the child against the mother and it is perfectly fine.
And women think they have rights in this country.
There have been cases where the rape victim was court ordered to take the children to the prison to visit their father who was in prison for raping their mother. And the mother was threatened with losing her children to the father's parents if she does not do as demanded.
This is how it is in America. It is far different from what I was taught in public school. Much of what I was taught in school has turned out to be a pack of lies and I've had to learn the truth the hard way.
The last time he had her call me he was right there with her forcing her to ask me why I kept her from him all these years and why I lied about him. She was crying hard and I could tell she was terrified. I have no power to save her from him. That is just what I heard on the phone. I can only imagine what he's doing to her. I hope he hasn't bullied her into believing that though. His visitation rights were terminated when she was two because the judge got tired of his violence. There was a court order saying he had no right to see her.