Yes, well, liberal, bi/pansexual, pro-choice, feminist, God wants us to love one another, who has studied mythology and can point you to the myths/legends Christianity plagiarized, type of Christian here. Sometimes my own ilk look at me like a two headed kraken has just oozed onto the beach and is about to attack them.
The religion isn't perfect, not by far. I'm largely a Christian because I believe there is a God somewhere out there in all this mess and because Jesus gives me the warm fuzzies. I've left the religion and came back because it makes the most sense to me. That doesn't mean a Muslim is wrong, or a Hindu, or a Wiccan. That just means they've found a different path to God than I did and as long as it makes them happy and doesn't induce dickish behavior I'm all for it. I'd rather (forgive the vernacular) deal with an honest pagan (or atheist as the case were) than a dishonest Christian. I will quote Ghandi at people "I like your Christ but I do not like your Christians; for they are so unlike your Christ".
When a fellow Christian asks me if I've read the book I tell them yes, over a dozen times. Then I ask them if they have. You are not supposed to take a lot of it literally. There are mentions of zombies, ghosts, dragons, unicorns, half-demons, giants, manticores, etc in that book. You mean to tell me I'm supposed to believe those thing are all real? Chances are good if they're asking that question they're actually a Paulian anyway.
Jesus teaches us in Matthew 22: 37-40:
37 Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. 38 This is the first and great commandment. 39 And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. 40 On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.
Did any of you fundies lurking here catch this? Jesus said to love God and love each other. Those are the most important things for a Christian to do. Even God has a "don't be a dick" rule.
Early in that same chapter he also spoke out on separation of church and state. Matthew 22:21
...Render therefore unto Caesar the things which are Caesar's; and unto God the things that are God's.
Catch that? Things that are legal issues should stay legal issues. Things that are strictly religious issues should stay strictly religious issues. There should be a clear line between them.
Legal marriage as recognized by the government is a legal issue. It doesn't mean your pastor is going to be arrested for refusing to perform a wedding for a local lesbian couple. No one is going to make your church accept them. All that means is the 1,400+ rights a marriage grants across the country now legally belong to that couple.