Okay, I feel the need to step in here and say something. This is exactly the reason I disappeared. After Keiro kept putting things off, I asked family what they thought and the general opinion was it would be put of perpetually. I didn't like it and didn't want to leave but following the events of May 12th and no-Miles rescue I left because I didn't feel like it was going to go anywhere. I had the feeling Keiro was lying, but I didn't know the extent.
I don't like saying it, but the consensus felt like it was all going to be a scam. Family thought Miles might be in on it too or Miles and Keiro were the same person, I didn't really believe that but the whole thing stank so bad by then I felt like it was important for me to cut ties entirely. Which ultimately sucks because Miles needed all the support he could get. I didn't want to jump ship but...if it was all a con and OM was just going to be postponed without end...there wasn't a lot I could have done. Ultimately my gut was right and Miles wasn't involved - I'm glad about that... he's too sweet.
But honestly, if I'd known we had $1000 at our disposal, and we'd had it back in April, I should have just gone and done it myself. Miles would have been safe at least two months earlier. I had the experience going after friends by train, I could have done it with no fuss, no mess, no greyhound freakouts. All I didn't have was the time and the car.
All I can say is I'm really glad Miles is safe now, and I have to live with feeling like I betrayed him in an hour of need. I hope these words don't hurt him too much - in spite of what family and friends thought based on past experience (this isn't the first time things like this have happened to me where people make a bunch of promises and then never follow through, the "experience in going after friends by train" showed me this, on three occasions)...I never wanted to believe Miles would be capable of that, and I'm so glad they were wrong.
I'm now going to return to my self-imposed exile. I still lurk, to keep an eye on things, but for the foreseeable future I won't be talking anymore.